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Multiple calls compared to RIF
2023.06.03 10:06 commonsearchterm Multiple calls compared to RIF
Hey, was reverse engineering RIF for unrelated reasons and saw the big argument with the reddit admin. Anyway here's what I found. 3x calls is suspiciously close to the 3x number they keep throwing around.
What I did: Loaded up burpsuite to mitm the requests from the android emulator I had running, and added the config to mitm requests from an ipad
Logged in with a new throwaway account and started browsing.
This first thing I did is load a subreddit. I opened /chatgpt once for both.
Apollo makes 4 api calls GET /ChatGPT/best.json?api_type=json&limit=12&raw_json=1 GET /ChatGPT/about.json?api_type=json&raw_json=1
then I guess it tries to preload even more posts?
GET /ChatGPT/best.json?after=t3_13yyhr1&api_type=json&limit=25&raw_json=1 GET /ChatGPT/best.json?after=t3_13ydco3&api_type=json&limit=25&raw_json=1
The after value is one of the posts in the preceding request
While this is happening there was four request for my users inbox GET /message/inbox.json?api_type=json&limit=25&mark=false&raw_json=1
https://imgur.com/a/qmsaCjh Requests as seen in burpsuite proxy
So What RIF does when a subreddit is loaded
it makes three calls, first it loads 25 posts instead of 12 in the first request, and doesnt do this again until I scroll GET /ChatGPT/hot/.json GET /ChatGPT/about/.json GET /api/v1/me
After I scroll a bit it loads another 25 GET /ChatGPT/hot/.json?after=t3_13yyfk2
https://imgur.com/a/xfe1VNp
I guess it would be interesting to see if the total requests made drops on a subreddit load if the first request mimicked RIF and loaded 25 and didnt load the rest.
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What I did: Loaded up burpsuite to mitm the requests from the android emulator I had running, and added the config to mitm requests from an ipad
Logged in with a new throwaway account and started browsing.
This first thing I did is load a subreddit. I opened /chatgpt once for both.
Apollo makes 4 api calls GET /ChatGPT/best.json?api_type=json&limit=12&raw_json=1 GET /ChatGPT/about.json?api_type=json&raw_json=1
then I guess it tries to preload even more posts?
GET /ChatGPT/best.json?after=t3_13yyhr1&api_type=json&limit=25&raw_json=1 GET /ChatGPT/best.json?after=t3_13ydco3&api_type=json&limit=25&raw_json=1
The after value is one of the posts in the preceding request
While this is happening there was four request for my users inbox GET /message/inbox.json?api_type=json&limit=25&mark=false&raw_json=1
https://imgur.com/a/qmsaCjh Requests as seen in burpsuite proxy
So What RIF does when a subreddit is loaded
it makes three calls, first it loads 25 posts instead of 12 in the first request, and doesnt do this again until I scroll GET /ChatGPT/hot/.json GET /ChatGPT/about/.json GET /api/v1/me
After I scroll a bit it loads another 25 GET /ChatGPT/hot/.json?after=t3_13yyfk2
https://imgur.com/a/xfe1VNp
I guess it would be interesting to see if the total requests made drops on a subreddit load if the first request mimicked RIF and loaded 25 and didnt load the rest.
2023.06.03 10:04 Musegirl234 I don’t know if I should quit without notice or not. Please help
So to make things short, I’m a new cook and I want to one day become a chef (yes, I am aware it is an underpaid industry, and it’s known to be toxic. But not every work environment is like this and sometimes it takes time. Or at least I hope, at this point I’m losing so much hope.)
I literally just got this job and it pays pretty decent. The only people who work in this kitchen is the chef (my boss) and her boyfriend. So that itself can make things a bit awkward and difficult, but I was getting so much praise at the beginning, and chef herself even told me she liked me. Which makes all of this so confusing and weird. Last week, Chefs boyfriend asked me to think of something to put on their wine tasting menu. I actually thought of something great and they ended up saying they were going to use it. I was so excited and felt so fulfilled and happy. But this is when things started to get weird and bizarre.
Apparently this causes my chefs attitude to FLIP with me. When I say flip, I mean flip. She excludes me from conversations, never asks me how I am, doesn’t want my help on the line anymore, she nitpicks EVERYTHING I do and honestly makes me feel like an idiot. It’s gotten to the point where I can’t work around her anymore. She left me the other day and didn’t say goodbye and left me with ALL the dishes to do and to close down the whole kitchen. I thought I might add, her boyfriend and I get along pretty great and I feel like I get along more with him more than her. She claimed that I gave him “attitude” on Sunday (the day I pitched the menu idea) which I thought was weird because we were talking that whole night and he even said good job on my idea.
So yeah, it’s gotten so toxic that my girlfriend is advising me to just not go back tomorrow. I won’t get into too much detail on how the chef is with me but it’s pretty bad and the things she says to me are so unnecessary. I’m mostly worried how this might affect my career path, and if it might not be the best idea to just leave abruptly but I’m thinking I have to do it.
I’m worried about money as well, but my girlfriend is reassuring me that it will be okay and she doesn’t want me to go back there because how bad the chef made me feel about myself. I had the chef from a really nice hotel give me a call with better pay and even benefits, so I’m hoping that will work out but of course with life you just never know. This year has been such shit for me, I’m not sure if this is the right subreddit but if anyone has any ideas to ease my anxiety please say it. Thank you.
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I literally just got this job and it pays pretty decent. The only people who work in this kitchen is the chef (my boss) and her boyfriend. So that itself can make things a bit awkward and difficult, but I was getting so much praise at the beginning, and chef herself even told me she liked me. Which makes all of this so confusing and weird. Last week, Chefs boyfriend asked me to think of something to put on their wine tasting menu. I actually thought of something great and they ended up saying they were going to use it. I was so excited and felt so fulfilled and happy. But this is when things started to get weird and bizarre.
Apparently this causes my chefs attitude to FLIP with me. When I say flip, I mean flip. She excludes me from conversations, never asks me how I am, doesn’t want my help on the line anymore, she nitpicks EVERYTHING I do and honestly makes me feel like an idiot. It’s gotten to the point where I can’t work around her anymore. She left me the other day and didn’t say goodbye and left me with ALL the dishes to do and to close down the whole kitchen. I thought I might add, her boyfriend and I get along pretty great and I feel like I get along more with him more than her. She claimed that I gave him “attitude” on Sunday (the day I pitched the menu idea) which I thought was weird because we were talking that whole night and he even said good job on my idea.
So yeah, it’s gotten so toxic that my girlfriend is advising me to just not go back tomorrow. I won’t get into too much detail on how the chef is with me but it’s pretty bad and the things she says to me are so unnecessary. I’m mostly worried how this might affect my career path, and if it might not be the best idea to just leave abruptly but I’m thinking I have to do it.
I’m worried about money as well, but my girlfriend is reassuring me that it will be okay and she doesn’t want me to go back there because how bad the chef made me feel about myself. I had the chef from a really nice hotel give me a call with better pay and even benefits, so I’m hoping that will work out but of course with life you just never know. This year has been such shit for me, I’m not sure if this is the right subreddit but if anyone has any ideas to ease my anxiety please say it. Thank you.
2023.06.03 10:02 ArleneHeere How gain independence as 19F living with parents?
I am 19F (20 in august) living with my parents while going to college. Up to this point, I never had a need for independence as I just went to school and home. But I recently got a boyfriend (22M) and have been exposed to new experiences and want to continue gaining more. My parents used to have a 10pm curfew on me but I kind of had a talk with my mom about it. The conversation went pretty badly (at first) but I think now if I tell her where I’m going and the approx time I’ll be back, it’s fine. My boyfriend is allowed over until 12am (this I think is lenient of them) but no closed doors. I went to my boyfriends house for the first time today and my next ‘request’ is to sleepover there.
I think I need to contribute to the household (maybe financially and chores-wise) to gain some independence from my parents. I’ll be honest, I haven’t contributed much when it comes to chores the past year. I just got my first part time this semester, $12 an hour 19hrs a week. I pay for my car insurance but that is it. Should I contribute to rent? I really don’t want to lol but may need to. I plan on setting up a cleaning schedule (I mop, clean restrooms, etc certain # of types a week) with my mom to contribute in that way. I used to do my own laundry but slacked off, I will now continue that again.
I just need help in this transitional part of my life. I need to set some boundaries with my parents, (mom tells me it’s too soon to be alone[she means sex] with my bf[he is best friends with my cousin, so I kinda understand and but it’s too late for that lol]). But I also don’t want to have to completely be an adult (living alone, bills, etc). Advice is greatly appreciated.
Extra: I just lost my virginity to my bf and am considering getting an IUD. I’m nervous to go to the doctor for the first time by myself (I’m not sure how my mom would react to me not being a virgin and wanting this IUD). I am scared that if I do get it, of going through the procedure alone. I’m not sure about that yet.
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I think I need to contribute to the household (maybe financially and chores-wise) to gain some independence from my parents. I’ll be honest, I haven’t contributed much when it comes to chores the past year. I just got my first part time this semester, $12 an hour 19hrs a week. I pay for my car insurance but that is it. Should I contribute to rent? I really don’t want to lol but may need to. I plan on setting up a cleaning schedule (I mop, clean restrooms, etc certain # of types a week) with my mom to contribute in that way. I used to do my own laundry but slacked off, I will now continue that again.
I just need help in this transitional part of my life. I need to set some boundaries with my parents, (mom tells me it’s too soon to be alone[she means sex] with my bf[he is best friends with my cousin, so I kinda understand and but it’s too late for that lol]). But I also don’t want to have to completely be an adult (living alone, bills, etc). Advice is greatly appreciated.
Extra: I just lost my virginity to my bf and am considering getting an IUD. I’m nervous to go to the doctor for the first time by myself (I’m not sure how my mom would react to me not being a virgin and wanting this IUD). I am scared that if I do get it, of going through the procedure alone. I’m not sure about that yet.
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2023.06.03 10:01 oceaneyesbillie Making friends as a manifestor?
Hi! I’d like to expand my friend group and really value connection. It’s one of my most important values.
I’ve always found I click super well with one person and then have casual friends that don’t really progress. I’m kinda weird, enjoy banter, appreciate deep and meaningfuls and love when people get my sense of humoucan joke (I feel it’s a love language for me).
I have a best friend of 4 years, re entry caught up with someone new off Bumble BFF with my bestie. I feel they talked more, connected over a similar interest and I felt like the 3rd wheel. I feel it’s an odd number group and planning to catch up with the new connection this weekend to get to know her better.
And my friend is loveable and gets genuinely excited by other people (she can experience social anxiety though and is a Projector in HD). I understand what’s coming up in this specific situation is a trigger of mine from a previous friendship wound and I’m holding space for myself.
But I tend to find I want to put in energy and people aren’t that receptive. And then I look at my bff who is like my soul sister.
I kinda feel like liquorice. If you love me, you LOVE me otherwise you don’t understand it haha
I was home schooled for a bit do to some health challenges so it makes me wonder if I’m lacking in social skills
From observation I think I do better 1:1 or in a light hearted group setting, otherwise I just find myself pull back even though I’m not anxious about socialising
What’s the best way you make friends as a mani?
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I’ve always found I click super well with one person and then have casual friends that don’t really progress. I’m kinda weird, enjoy banter, appreciate deep and meaningfuls and love when people get my sense of humoucan joke (I feel it’s a love language for me).
I have a best friend of 4 years, re entry caught up with someone new off Bumble BFF with my bestie. I feel they talked more, connected over a similar interest and I felt like the 3rd wheel. I feel it’s an odd number group and planning to catch up with the new connection this weekend to get to know her better.
And my friend is loveable and gets genuinely excited by other people (she can experience social anxiety though and is a Projector in HD). I understand what’s coming up in this specific situation is a trigger of mine from a previous friendship wound and I’m holding space for myself.
But I tend to find I want to put in energy and people aren’t that receptive. And then I look at my bff who is like my soul sister.
I kinda feel like liquorice. If you love me, you LOVE me otherwise you don’t understand it haha
I was home schooled for a bit do to some health challenges so it makes me wonder if I’m lacking in social skills
From observation I think I do better 1:1 or in a light hearted group setting, otherwise I just find myself pull back even though I’m not anxious about socialising
What’s the best way you make friends as a mani?
2023.06.03 10:00 honestlouise Help! What is this insect?
 | I found this insect in a box with gnaw wood materials and sunflower seeds. The box was closed, but I also spotted one on some wood ladder I stored next to it. submitted by honestlouise to hamsters [link] [comments] What is it and what should I do? Could it hurt my hammy? The box was stored in a bigger box with all his extra materials (two wheels, wooden toys etc) and his beddings. |
2023.06.03 09:57 todoroki_19 Braun Epilator
I wanted to share (what seems to be) a small win in the journey of dealing with PCOS and it’s impact on my life!! I’ve suffered with the unproportionally large belly, hair loss, overall weight gain, and acanthosis nigricans- but the most damaging has got to be the hirsutism.
I’ve been shaving my face for years now and I’m only 21, meaning I would absolutely irritate the absolute HELL out of my skin while going through bouts of acne, ingrown hairs, etc. While bio-oil has helped with the scarring, the constant stubble has been there with me through all~ of my “treatments”. Birth control, progesterone tracks, and currently metformin.
I recently bought a braun epilator for my chin/jawline/upper neck and for the past couple weeks I had been using the attachment that essentially gives a close shave, but today I mustered up the courage to use the actual epilator attachment (think 10 tweezers rotating on a wheel and pulling all the hairs as it touches your skin) and while it hurt SO BAD initially, it started getting better and I have never gotten my skin to feel this smooth!!! Even with waxing I feel like you can never really get everything, but I feel like I got at least 85% of all my facial hair! And that’s considering some of the hairs were just too short for the epilator to grab onto!!
I know that it may not work for some especially those with low pain tolerances, but please look into epilators if you’re interested!!
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I’ve been shaving my face for years now and I’m only 21, meaning I would absolutely irritate the absolute HELL out of my skin while going through bouts of acne, ingrown hairs, etc. While bio-oil has helped with the scarring, the constant stubble has been there with me through all~ of my “treatments”. Birth control, progesterone tracks, and currently metformin.
I recently bought a braun epilator for my chin/jawline/upper neck and for the past couple weeks I had been using the attachment that essentially gives a close shave, but today I mustered up the courage to use the actual epilator attachment (think 10 tweezers rotating on a wheel and pulling all the hairs as it touches your skin) and while it hurt SO BAD initially, it started getting better and I have never gotten my skin to feel this smooth!!! Even with waxing I feel like you can never really get everything, but I feel like I got at least 85% of all my facial hair! And that’s considering some of the hairs were just too short for the epilator to grab onto!!
I know that it may not work for some especially those with low pain tolerances, but please look into epilators if you’re interested!!
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2023.06.03 09:55 toritree [Acne] Duac gel and minocycline help
Hi everyone, I just wanted to get some second opinions regarding the acne treatment I am on! Just as a little back story, I had severe acne in 2020 and managed to completely clear my skin by 2021 a year later, I also have VERY sensitive skin and can only use certain products.I am currently living in Japan for my year abroad and before coming to Japan I was on lymecycline for 9 months, I went to see a derm and he prescribed this to me for some pesky spots, I continued to take these tablets when I arrived and my skin was still clear. However, slowly my skin started to get worse and worse, lymecycline wasn't doing anything anymore. The spots are only on my chin and jaw. I tried my best to combat my bad skin with retinol and then tried vitamin c, both only made my skin worse (I think I was allergic). To this point I went to a derm here in Japan. He gave me minocycline (2 times per day), pyridoxal (3 times per day) and transamin (3 times per day) as well as duac gel to use once in the evening. Most of the angry spots cleared up and I still have some new ones that have formed, however, the main thing that really makes me feel unconfident is the small skin coloured spots/bumps. I asked the derm about them and he told me they were closed comedones. However, over the 9 weeks I have been on this medication they have not changed at all. The weird thing about them is when I smile or talk, when the skin is stretched, it's like they flatten completely and you wouldn't know they were there. Is this normal for closed comedones? I'm supposed to go back to the derm after 12 weeks but I think I'm gonna go back next week to speak to him as it's not improving. I want to add these spots aren't itchy or painful.I wondered if anyone else has had this problem too and if I should stick it out with this medication or if it's something else? I'm kind of desperate at this point and I still have 2 months until I return home to speak to my normal derm. Photo for reference: https://imgur.com/UsHDtFy
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2023.06.03 09:54 Logical-District2790 My process
Hey so I just had my surgery on the 30 and I thought I’d give a detailed description of how the process went for me. Please bare with me. I did the best I could describing and telling my story.
The beginning:
I went to my doctor and asked for her to refer me to the bariatric doctor because I was ready to discuss surgery. Last year before I had my 2nd son I had started a weight loss pill that helped me lose 30 pounds. Which put the breaks on getting surgery. (It was a discussion with my doctor but I wanted to try the pills before doing surgery) A requirement was being over 210 and with taking the pills it brought me to 200 so I didn’t see the point of surgery. But then I got pregnant, had gestational diabetes and gained a bunch of weight. He’s one now and I still haven’t been able to let the weight go which motivated me to go the surgery route. My genetics also play a huge part in why I decided to get the surgery. Me and my mom both have the same body type and she struggles with her weight. And I decided I didn’t want to be on that path.
The program:
So I started my program. Which consisted of monthly appointments with a dietician practicing diets and figuring out any bad habits to try to get rid of them. I’ll be honest I didn’t follow much. I just showed up to my appointments and took all the information in. As long as I didn’t gain weight I was okay. I started the program at 250lbs. At the end of the 6 months I lost 5lbs. I failed the psych evaluation and had to redo it. But it only delayed the process by a couple of weeks. No biggie.
Scheduling:
Once I got the okay to have surgery, they scheduled my day. I believe I was called on the 1st week of may and was schedule may 30. I was super shocked it was so close. But was ready for it to be done. I had to do a liquid diet for a week. Also know as the liver shrink diet. Only liquids my dietician said salads for dinner was okay. Which I followed to a T until the 6th day. Before the liquid stage I got sick and had no appetite so I wasn’t eating anything at all. In that week I lost 5lbs, I gained like 2 back when I started eating again but then I went right to the liquid diet and I felt like I was losing it. I hadn’t really ain’t a solid meal in almost 2 weeks. So I had one solid meal of rice and meat (spanish food). I went back to the liquid diet for the next 2 days and lost 7lbs in total on the liquid diet. I was also told to stop any vitamins or pills so I did that as well.
The surgery:
So the day of my surgery I didn’t eat anything. My surgeon recommended I drink a G2 on the way to the hospital to help with the anesthesia. Which I did. I didn’t drink the whole thing cause my stomach was all twisted from not really eating anything. They also wanted me to shower the night before and the morning of using the hibiclens. I had my mom drop me off because they don’t allow you to drive home and I did not want to leave my car in the garage overnight. I got there at 7 am. I was admitted and waited to be called to the back. They put me in a admitting room where they had me change into a surgery gown. Had me document my belongings. And pee in a cup for a pregnancy test. They asked all the same questions all over again which I answered. A nurse wiped my belly again with what I believe was hibiclens again. They then put my iv and started fluid. The anesthesiologist came in asked me questions and then said they were giving me meds to go to sleep. They rolled me out to the surgery room which was almost 10am when I checked the time. 5 minutes later I was out. I woke up in the recovery room.
Waking up:
So I woke up and was out of it. I believe it was around 12-1pm. They let me stay asleep while they made sure my vitals were back to normal. I did hear the nurse a few times saying that my pressure was high but they were able to fix it because they moved me to my own room shortly after. Getting to my own room I slept sooo much. They would come to get me up to walk every 4 hours unless I got up to pee. Which I had to call a nurse to help me go cause I wasn’t allowed to get up on my own. Majority of the times I woke up I felt nauseous. Which lead to me throwing up blood.(this is normal) So for the first 18 hours out of surgery I slept, woke up to pee, threw up and walked around the floor for a lap to get my steps in. They would also give me pain and nausea meds. I was also getting continuous fluids. Which is why I was peeing every 2-3 hours. The pain always maintained level 6-7 it never got worse then that. And the pain meds and sleeping made it non existent. (I want to add I do have a high pain tolerance. I had 2 8+lb babies with no epidural if that helps gauge it.) The next morning I felt so restless I was ready to go. They discharged me around 12pm and my sister in law picked me up. They were able to bring me my meds to take home and I went home feeling way better then I did the first day.
Things I think I forgot:
I have 5 incisions. I’m currently on a liquid diet. It hurts to cough ( I am still alittle sick) the glue is already coming off around the incisions. I hardly drink or eat anything. I’m struggling to hit my goals but I’m hopeful that I can do it. I’m only on day 2 of being home. I do get gas. But burping helps relieve the pains. I don’t take the pain meds as prescribed. Only when I really feel like I’m in pain. I am a weed smoker and I have posted about it in the past and wanted to say I did smoke 2 nights before the surgery. But not the night of. And everything went smooth for me. This doesn’t mean it will be the same for everyone else. Also want to add I am not really a heavy smoker. I just smoke when I want to. I’m sorry if this was long. But I noticed alot of people asking how others procedures went and I wanted to share mine. I hope this will help someone. So far I do not regret my decision. I am a total of 14lbs down since I started my liquid diet. I know it’s just the beginning and I have so much ahead of me to conquer. The worst has past and I honestly believe it was the surgery. Please ask any questions. I’m open to answering anything.
HW: 250 SW: 237 CW: 231
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The beginning:
I went to my doctor and asked for her to refer me to the bariatric doctor because I was ready to discuss surgery. Last year before I had my 2nd son I had started a weight loss pill that helped me lose 30 pounds. Which put the breaks on getting surgery. (It was a discussion with my doctor but I wanted to try the pills before doing surgery) A requirement was being over 210 and with taking the pills it brought me to 200 so I didn’t see the point of surgery. But then I got pregnant, had gestational diabetes and gained a bunch of weight. He’s one now and I still haven’t been able to let the weight go which motivated me to go the surgery route. My genetics also play a huge part in why I decided to get the surgery. Me and my mom both have the same body type and she struggles with her weight. And I decided I didn’t want to be on that path.
The program:
So I started my program. Which consisted of monthly appointments with a dietician practicing diets and figuring out any bad habits to try to get rid of them. I’ll be honest I didn’t follow much. I just showed up to my appointments and took all the information in. As long as I didn’t gain weight I was okay. I started the program at 250lbs. At the end of the 6 months I lost 5lbs. I failed the psych evaluation and had to redo it. But it only delayed the process by a couple of weeks. No biggie.
Scheduling:
Once I got the okay to have surgery, they scheduled my day. I believe I was called on the 1st week of may and was schedule may 30. I was super shocked it was so close. But was ready for it to be done. I had to do a liquid diet for a week. Also know as the liver shrink diet. Only liquids my dietician said salads for dinner was okay. Which I followed to a T until the 6th day. Before the liquid stage I got sick and had no appetite so I wasn’t eating anything at all. In that week I lost 5lbs, I gained like 2 back when I started eating again but then I went right to the liquid diet and I felt like I was losing it. I hadn’t really ain’t a solid meal in almost 2 weeks. So I had one solid meal of rice and meat (spanish food). I went back to the liquid diet for the next 2 days and lost 7lbs in total on the liquid diet. I was also told to stop any vitamins or pills so I did that as well.
The surgery:
So the day of my surgery I didn’t eat anything. My surgeon recommended I drink a G2 on the way to the hospital to help with the anesthesia. Which I did. I didn’t drink the whole thing cause my stomach was all twisted from not really eating anything. They also wanted me to shower the night before and the morning of using the hibiclens. I had my mom drop me off because they don’t allow you to drive home and I did not want to leave my car in the garage overnight. I got there at 7 am. I was admitted and waited to be called to the back. They put me in a admitting room where they had me change into a surgery gown. Had me document my belongings. And pee in a cup for a pregnancy test. They asked all the same questions all over again which I answered. A nurse wiped my belly again with what I believe was hibiclens again. They then put my iv and started fluid. The anesthesiologist came in asked me questions and then said they were giving me meds to go to sleep. They rolled me out to the surgery room which was almost 10am when I checked the time. 5 minutes later I was out. I woke up in the recovery room.
Waking up:
So I woke up and was out of it. I believe it was around 12-1pm. They let me stay asleep while they made sure my vitals were back to normal. I did hear the nurse a few times saying that my pressure was high but they were able to fix it because they moved me to my own room shortly after. Getting to my own room I slept sooo much. They would come to get me up to walk every 4 hours unless I got up to pee. Which I had to call a nurse to help me go cause I wasn’t allowed to get up on my own. Majority of the times I woke up I felt nauseous. Which lead to me throwing up blood.(this is normal) So for the first 18 hours out of surgery I slept, woke up to pee, threw up and walked around the floor for a lap to get my steps in. They would also give me pain and nausea meds. I was also getting continuous fluids. Which is why I was peeing every 2-3 hours. The pain always maintained level 6-7 it never got worse then that. And the pain meds and sleeping made it non existent. (I want to add I do have a high pain tolerance. I had 2 8+lb babies with no epidural if that helps gauge it.) The next morning I felt so restless I was ready to go. They discharged me around 12pm and my sister in law picked me up. They were able to bring me my meds to take home and I went home feeling way better then I did the first day.
Things I think I forgot:
I have 5 incisions. I’m currently on a liquid diet. It hurts to cough ( I am still alittle sick) the glue is already coming off around the incisions. I hardly drink or eat anything. I’m struggling to hit my goals but I’m hopeful that I can do it. I’m only on day 2 of being home. I do get gas. But burping helps relieve the pains. I don’t take the pain meds as prescribed. Only when I really feel like I’m in pain. I am a weed smoker and I have posted about it in the past and wanted to say I did smoke 2 nights before the surgery. But not the night of. And everything went smooth for me. This doesn’t mean it will be the same for everyone else. Also want to add I am not really a heavy smoker. I just smoke when I want to. I’m sorry if this was long. But I noticed alot of people asking how others procedures went and I wanted to share mine. I hope this will help someone. So far I do not regret my decision. I am a total of 14lbs down since I started my liquid diet. I know it’s just the beginning and I have so much ahead of me to conquer. The worst has past and I honestly believe it was the surgery. Please ask any questions. I’m open to answering anything.
HW: 250 SW: 237 CW: 231
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2023.06.03 09:51 ex-D What is the counter to floating?
I’m not even talking like someone jumping in place. I’m talking like one jump drifted right in like an n shape then another to the left then mixed with random air dodges away from me. It feels like whenever someone has a playstyle like this the only counter is to be equally uninteractive. I have found whiffing random grounded light attacks that r safe to be pretty effective against normal floaty players to be annoying back if I don’t want to jump. But then they start weapon throwing and that option by me is no longer as good.
Honestly dashing and fastfall are overrated as options in neutral. And kinda like a huge lie told to players below diamond elo. The real best movement options is spamming a d in the air while jumping. If u fast fall u spend less time in the air and it’s way harder to hit someone in the air than the ground. “Normal” players use one jump in neutral then either do an attack or don’t. If they decide to attack the person who used 2 jumps in neutral is one jump height above and can punish whiffs. Also if u nair someone for floating that’s just 1 hit. When most weapons have combo starters that guarantee 2 hits on the ground.
Anyone have any counters to this playstyle that is plaguing 2200? A sword player for example can drop dlight recovery (god knows how) 3 times in a row and still be at this elo because of how broken this playstyle is. I copied this playstyle and it’s like some players realize by the last stock what is going on and decide to be hella passive back. But the earlier adaptors can win or make it close.
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Honestly dashing and fastfall are overrated as options in neutral. And kinda like a huge lie told to players below diamond elo. The real best movement options is spamming a d in the air while jumping. If u fast fall u spend less time in the air and it’s way harder to hit someone in the air than the ground. “Normal” players use one jump in neutral then either do an attack or don’t. If they decide to attack the person who used 2 jumps in neutral is one jump height above and can punish whiffs. Also if u nair someone for floating that’s just 1 hit. When most weapons have combo starters that guarantee 2 hits on the ground.
Anyone have any counters to this playstyle that is plaguing 2200? A sword player for example can drop dlight recovery (god knows how) 3 times in a row and still be at this elo because of how broken this playstyle is. I copied this playstyle and it’s like some players realize by the last stock what is going on and decide to be hella passive back. But the earlier adaptors can win or make it close.
2023.06.03 09:50 bryce_withingale Should I end my friendship?
I've (20) had this friend(20) who has been my friend for the past 6 years. We used to be used close in the beginning but then around year 4 she had to move abroad. I have DPDR so I often forget that people around me exist when I haven't seen them for a while along with some other issues I face.
From the start, she's never really been a great friend to me. I've always thought of her as an escape from my shitty household, so I saw her as a light in my gloomy existence at the start of our friendship. This light being the very reason I never really saw her flaws till later on but even then I would tolerate them because I needed my escape.
Moving forward to year 5,she's gone through some very traumatic shit that I would always help her through. But she's very manipulative in the sense that when I was going through my own shit she she sent me messages about how she was going to KHR and that forced me to invite her over to my house and later when I asked her she said she wasn't serious.
This is year 6, now I notice so many issues with her that I don't have the patience for and I know I'm not a good friend but I've always been good to her and she's acknowledged it. She's admitted that I'm there for her more than she's ever been there for me. She now uses me as a escape from her terrible hostel life, which I was fine with till she came over to my house and admitted that she not only has a new best friend but that she was sad that the boy she liked (loves) wasn't willing to meet with her and that she only came over to meet with him.
The other thing that really hurt me was that we decided to meet this new uni friend I made. She has this issue of kinda being self absorbed to the point where she continued to talk only about the guy that she liked to my friend and didn't really bother asking him any questions. Not only that but when my friend asked her questions about me her responses really fazed me because I didn't know that's how she viewed me. She said words like yeah "I clinged onto her" (me to her) and that whenever I would address my issues with her I would basically be "throwing a fit". This visit btw was imposed on me by her, I didn't want to meet her since I was still grieving my dead cat and things were really terrible for me when she stayed over
This was the last time I talked to her in person,after that she asked me if I wanted to hang out I said no. Now, she has messaged me saying that she knows that I was sad and that she's trying her best.
I don't know how to respond.. should I just end it?
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From the start, she's never really been a great friend to me. I've always thought of her as an escape from my shitty household, so I saw her as a light in my gloomy existence at the start of our friendship. This light being the very reason I never really saw her flaws till later on but even then I would tolerate them because I needed my escape.
Moving forward to year 5,she's gone through some very traumatic shit that I would always help her through. But she's very manipulative in the sense that when I was going through my own shit she she sent me messages about how she was going to KHR and that forced me to invite her over to my house and later when I asked her she said she wasn't serious.
This is year 6, now I notice so many issues with her that I don't have the patience for and I know I'm not a good friend but I've always been good to her and she's acknowledged it. She's admitted that I'm there for her more than she's ever been there for me. She now uses me as a escape from her terrible hostel life, which I was fine with till she came over to my house and admitted that she not only has a new best friend but that she was sad that the boy she liked (loves) wasn't willing to meet with her and that she only came over to meet with him.
The other thing that really hurt me was that we decided to meet this new uni friend I made. She has this issue of kinda being self absorbed to the point where she continued to talk only about the guy that she liked to my friend and didn't really bother asking him any questions. Not only that but when my friend asked her questions about me her responses really fazed me because I didn't know that's how she viewed me. She said words like yeah "I clinged onto her" (me to her) and that whenever I would address my issues with her I would basically be "throwing a fit". This visit btw was imposed on me by her, I didn't want to meet her since I was still grieving my dead cat and things were really terrible for me when she stayed over
This was the last time I talked to her in person,after that she asked me if I wanted to hang out I said no. Now, she has messaged me saying that she knows that I was sad and that she's trying her best.
I don't know how to respond.. should I just end it?
2023.06.03 09:49 carsrule1989 New house, changing locks,
Hello everyone
we just closed on our first house and i would like to change the locks on the front and garage door. It would be best if we could just replace the cylinders and not the entire door handles. Please let me know what information/measurements I would need to buy the replacement cylinders, as there are many different types of cylanders and would like to know what ones to buy. THe top images are for the front door https://imgur.com/a/lPgCA7k
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we just closed on our first house and i would like to change the locks on the front and garage door. It would be best if we could just replace the cylinders and not the entire door handles. Please let me know what information/measurements I would need to buy the replacement cylinders, as there are many different types of cylanders and would like to know what ones to buy. THe top images are for the front door https://imgur.com/a/lPgCA7k
2023.06.03 09:49 Optimal-Future3815 CCTV surveillance for industrial security
The Closed Circuit Television cameras (CCTV Cameras) are connected to a central monitoring station, where the footage can be viewed and recorded by trained personnel.
The use of CCTV has become increasingly common in recent years, with many businesses and public spaces installing cameras to improve security and deter criminal activity. CCTV can also be used to monitor traffic flow, track the movements of individuals, and provide evidence in criminal investigations.
While some people have raised concerns about privacy issues associated with the use of CCTV, proponents argue that it is an effective tool for preventing crime and protecting public safety. In many cases, the mere presence of cameras can act as a deterrent to potential criminals.
CCTV is an important technology that plays a vital role in modern society. As technology continues to evolve, it is likely that we will see even more advanced forms of surveillance emerge in the years ahead.
Role of CCTV in Industries
CCTV surveillance has become an essential tool for industrial security. It is a cost-effective and efficient way of monitoring the activities of employees, visitors, and intruders in industrial facilities. The role of CCTV surveillance in industrial security cannot be overemphasized as it helps to prevent theft, vandalism, and other criminal activities.
The use of CCTV cameras also provides evidence in case of any criminal activity or accident within the facility. This evidence can be used to identify the culprits and prosecute them accordingly. Additionally, CCTV surveillance can help to improve employee productivity by monitoring their activities and ensuring that they are adhering to company policies.
However, there are concerns about privacy invasion with the use of CCTV cameras. It is important for companies to ensure that they comply with data protection laws when using these cameras. They should also inform employees and visitors about the use of CCTV cameras within their premises.
Advantages of CCTV Surveillance for industrial security
CCTV surveillancehas become an essential component of industrial security systems. It provides numerous advantages that make it a valuable investment for businesses.
· Firstly, CCTV cameras act as a deterrent to potential criminals, reducing the likelihood of theft and vandalism.
· Secondly, they provide real-time monitoring of activities within the premises, allowing for quick response to any suspicious behavior or incidents. This can help prevent accidents and minimize damage in case of emergencies.
· Moreover, CCTV footage can be used as evidence in legal proceedings, making it easier to identify perpetrators and prosecute them. In addition, remote access to CCTV feeds allows for off-site monitoring and management of security operations.
· Overall, CCTV surveillance is an effective tool for enhancing industrial security by providing constant vigilance and reliable evidence gathering capabilities. While there may be concerns about privacy invasion, proper implementation and usage guidelines can address these issues while still reaping the benefits of this technology.
In conclusion, the role of CCTV surveillance in industrial security cannot be ignored. It provides a reliable way of monitoring activities within industrial facilities while deterring criminal activities. Companies should ensure that they use these cameras responsibly while respecting individuals' privacy rights.
submitted by Optimal-Future3815 to u/Optimal-Future3815 [link] [comments]
The use of CCTV has become increasingly common in recent years, with many businesses and public spaces installing cameras to improve security and deter criminal activity. CCTV can also be used to monitor traffic flow, track the movements of individuals, and provide evidence in criminal investigations.
While some people have raised concerns about privacy issues associated with the use of CCTV, proponents argue that it is an effective tool for preventing crime and protecting public safety. In many cases, the mere presence of cameras can act as a deterrent to potential criminals.
CCTV is an important technology that plays a vital role in modern society. As technology continues to evolve, it is likely that we will see even more advanced forms of surveillance emerge in the years ahead.
Role of CCTV in Industries
CCTV surveillance has become an essential tool for industrial security. It is a cost-effective and efficient way of monitoring the activities of employees, visitors, and intruders in industrial facilities. The role of CCTV surveillance in industrial security cannot be overemphasized as it helps to prevent theft, vandalism, and other criminal activities.
The use of CCTV cameras also provides evidence in case of any criminal activity or accident within the facility. This evidence can be used to identify the culprits and prosecute them accordingly. Additionally, CCTV surveillance can help to improve employee productivity by monitoring their activities and ensuring that they are adhering to company policies.
However, there are concerns about privacy invasion with the use of CCTV cameras. It is important for companies to ensure that they comply with data protection laws when using these cameras. They should also inform employees and visitors about the use of CCTV cameras within their premises.
Advantages of CCTV Surveillance for industrial security
CCTV surveillancehas become an essential component of industrial security systems. It provides numerous advantages that make it a valuable investment for businesses.
· Firstly, CCTV cameras act as a deterrent to potential criminals, reducing the likelihood of theft and vandalism.
· Secondly, they provide real-time monitoring of activities within the premises, allowing for quick response to any suspicious behavior or incidents. This can help prevent accidents and minimize damage in case of emergencies.
· Moreover, CCTV footage can be used as evidence in legal proceedings, making it easier to identify perpetrators and prosecute them. In addition, remote access to CCTV feeds allows for off-site monitoring and management of security operations.
· Overall, CCTV surveillance is an effective tool for enhancing industrial security by providing constant vigilance and reliable evidence gathering capabilities. While there may be concerns about privacy invasion, proper implementation and usage guidelines can address these issues while still reaping the benefits of this technology.
In conclusion, the role of CCTV surveillance in industrial security cannot be ignored. It provides a reliable way of monitoring activities within industrial facilities while deterring criminal activities. Companies should ensure that they use these cameras responsibly while respecting individuals' privacy rights.
2023.06.03 09:48 BlueDoggerz Im supposed to leave for Israel in 9h but my gerbil is dying
Hi For background info: 1. birthright is a program in the US for 18-26yo Jews to get a “free” trip to israel 2. Kippah is my gerbil
So my sibling and I decided about half a year ago we would go on Birthright together since he was 25 and its his last year eligible. I didnt tell him this- im not super interested in travelling- its just kind of exhausting and stuff for me- but i wanted to go with him and he was excited. First- its not actually free. Most of it is, but there is a $250 deposit that is refunded (unless you cancel), $100 in cash for tips required, $50 insurance required, and one meal a day. Considering all this was told to us after the deposit- i wasnt expecting it. I owe my parents money right now because of college expenses and its been extremely hard to pay for also converters and supplies in addition to that stuff- plus getting to NY for the initial flight.
Now my gerbil is elderly. He is extremely important to me- and we are close. For perspective- my roommate fed him for a week while I was away once- he his every time she entered the room. I opened the door and said “Hi Kippah!” And he immediately came out. He also comes when called and ive worked a lot with him to get him to trust me. Yesterday when I woke up, i decided to clean his cage since i was about to be gone for two weeks. I found him in his bedding- he could barely walk and constantly was falling. He hadnt been able to drink or eat since i had last seen him do so about 24h earlier likely. (He sleeps a lot). He now has to have the water bottle held up to him to drink, can barely walk, and is in a carrier. Hes not going to survive the two weeks im gone. I dont want to go. I dont want to leave him. I dont want him to die alone or with a stranger. I dont want him to be abandoned as he is doing so awful. I didnt even really want to go on the trip regardless. Im okay facing the consequences of my parents and financially. I am aware that not going would also hurt my sibling a lot, though i think he would also understand. If i dont go, i think id meet my sibling in ny like planned and then go back to my parents house for the two weeks and bring the gerbil instead. I feel like if i dont go though, id be an absolute d*cl to my sibling and itll have wasted so much money
I dont know what to do, what to say to my sibling (he is slightly aware of the gerbil’s situation but not me), i dont know
Edit too: I am not asking for veterinary advice and it is not allowed to be asked as it is medical. I am a vet students and know what is best care- wise for the gerbil. If he were human- he would be in hospice and/or a wheelchair.
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So my sibling and I decided about half a year ago we would go on Birthright together since he was 25 and its his last year eligible. I didnt tell him this- im not super interested in travelling- its just kind of exhausting and stuff for me- but i wanted to go with him and he was excited. First- its not actually free. Most of it is, but there is a $250 deposit that is refunded (unless you cancel), $100 in cash for tips required, $50 insurance required, and one meal a day. Considering all this was told to us after the deposit- i wasnt expecting it. I owe my parents money right now because of college expenses and its been extremely hard to pay for also converters and supplies in addition to that stuff- plus getting to NY for the initial flight.
Now my gerbil is elderly. He is extremely important to me- and we are close. For perspective- my roommate fed him for a week while I was away once- he his every time she entered the room. I opened the door and said “Hi Kippah!” And he immediately came out. He also comes when called and ive worked a lot with him to get him to trust me. Yesterday when I woke up, i decided to clean his cage since i was about to be gone for two weeks. I found him in his bedding- he could barely walk and constantly was falling. He hadnt been able to drink or eat since i had last seen him do so about 24h earlier likely. (He sleeps a lot). He now has to have the water bottle held up to him to drink, can barely walk, and is in a carrier. Hes not going to survive the two weeks im gone. I dont want to go. I dont want to leave him. I dont want him to die alone or with a stranger. I dont want him to be abandoned as he is doing so awful. I didnt even really want to go on the trip regardless. Im okay facing the consequences of my parents and financially. I am aware that not going would also hurt my sibling a lot, though i think he would also understand. If i dont go, i think id meet my sibling in ny like planned and then go back to my parents house for the two weeks and bring the gerbil instead. I feel like if i dont go though, id be an absolute d*cl to my sibling and itll have wasted so much money
I dont know what to do, what to say to my sibling (he is slightly aware of the gerbil’s situation but not me), i dont know
Edit too: I am not asking for veterinary advice and it is not allowed to be asked as it is medical. I am a vet students and know what is best care- wise for the gerbil. If he were human- he would be in hospice and/or a wheelchair.
2023.06.03 09:46 Horror_Tomorrow4660 On the brink of exhaustion. But do not want to give up.
The title says it all.
I have three exams across three days, starting Wednesday to Friday.
Two exams 8:30 am Wednesday & Friday. Both are closed book exams. I can bring in an approved calculator. A sheet of formulas, periodic table & some useful information pertaining to carbohydrates, amino acids & nucleotides will be provided.
One exam Thursday afternoon 4 pm. Open book. This one has me really nervous, typing speed wise. I am a slow typer. But irrespective of this, I'll put something down, even just to secure one mark.
Final exam is also Thursday afternoon 4 pm (15/6). This one is closed book but wholly MCQs & fill in the gap Qs. Hoping this one goes more smoothly.
FYI, no more revision come 6 pm Tuesday night (7/6) for me. An iron cast rule.
I do not want to give up.
Just want to do my absolute best, at least try for something.
Good luck to all from next week.
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I have three exams across three days, starting Wednesday to Friday.
Two exams 8:30 am Wednesday & Friday. Both are closed book exams. I can bring in an approved calculator. A sheet of formulas, periodic table & some useful information pertaining to carbohydrates, amino acids & nucleotides will be provided.
One exam Thursday afternoon 4 pm. Open book. This one has me really nervous, typing speed wise. I am a slow typer. But irrespective of this, I'll put something down, even just to secure one mark.
Final exam is also Thursday afternoon 4 pm (15/6). This one is closed book but wholly MCQs & fill in the gap Qs. Hoping this one goes more smoothly.
FYI, no more revision come 6 pm Tuesday night (7/6) for me. An iron cast rule.
I do not want to give up.
Just want to do my absolute best, at least try for something.
Good luck to all from next week.
2023.06.03 09:45 CB_scorpio Entity DeFi: MultiversX Devnet Adventure Guide by @EntityFinance
 | DeFi Summer is upon us! While there are some great protocols already live on MultiversX mainnet, today we will take a look at some exciting upcoming features that are publicly available on the devnet. Join us for a deep dive into the ecosystem, potential synergies, and the future of DeFi. submitted by CB_scorpio to elrondnetwork [link] [comments] Entity DeFi: MultiversX Devnet Adventure Guide Keep up with the evolutionYou know that feeling when you discover a valuable new financial tool?Expect to have that feeling again and again in the coming months on MultiversX. While this is a positive sign for the ecosystem, it can become a bit overwhelming if you’re not already a DeFi expert. The more protocols and strategies available, the more research and planning you need to keep up with the opportunities. Reading threads and articles is a great way to build your knowledge, but there is no replacement for hands-on learning. This is where devnet exploration comes into play. Although the APRs and other figures might not represent what the real values will be on mainnet, practicing DeFi on the MultiversX devnet is an excellent low-risk method to learn firsthand and gain an insightful preview into the next wave of growth. Did we mention there are some great airdrop rewards as well? Let’s dive in! The future of DeFi is already live on MVX devnetAshSwap: next-level aggregation and moreAs the first stable-swap on MultiversX, AshSwap has already established itself as one of the leaders of this evolving DeFi ecosystem.The AshSwap Team has continued working hard to continuously improve their protocol since their mainnet launch earlier this year. This includes AshSwap developing integrations with projects such as Hatom, JewelSwap, Autoscale, and SALSA- plus building some of their own new features. For example, you can now try out AshSwap’s upcoming DEX aggregator. AshSwap is building a Dynamic Route Trading DEX Aggregator for MultiversX DEX aggregators are important for a thriving DeFi ecosystem since they help find the most efficient way to swap tokens from several different exchanges. While there are already some existing aggregators on MultiversX such as JEXchange and Arda, these solutions use the static trade routing method that finds the single most efficient swap route. AshSwap’s DEX aggregator, on the other hand, goes a step further by using dynamic trade routing. This means that AshSwap can leverage multiple routes at once for maximum efficiency. As seen in the graphic above, this approach can lead to some creative routes that function like mini arbitrage opportunities for swappers. For low liquidity pairs, this can be especially helpful for achieving the best possible exchange rate without draining liquidity from a single pool. To see how this mechanism works in practice, head on over to the AshSwap devnet! Autoscale: making DeFi more accessibleHave you heard of Autoscale? The team at Autoscale is building a powerful set of automated tools that are all about simplifying the Web3 investing experience.Autoscale could become a highly valuable piece of the MultiversX ecosystem due to the way it empowers investors to easily capitalize on different DeFi opportunities. For example, users will be able to put their funds in vaults that automatically optimizes their yields over time. Autoscale can also automatically compound investments at the optimal frequency instead of requiring users to constantly re-invest manually. Autoscale’s automatic staking will make MultiversX DeFi more user friendly than ever While Autoscale’s autocompound feature is still under development, you can already try out some of their features on MultiversX devnet. Overall, this project shows that DeFi is not a zero-sum game, and that building tools on top of other protocols such as AshSwap or DX25 can produce additional value for all involved stakeholders. DX25: next-generation concentrated liquidityDX25 is a new DEX that will supercharge MultiversX DeFi with a range of powerful and innovative liquidity tools.Although DX25 is building a full suite of exciting features such as on-chain derivatives and more, concentrated liquidity will be at the heart of their platform. Improving on the Uniswap V3 model, DX25 allows users to laser-target their liquidity for supercharged yields. Instead of splitting fees with every other LP in a pool, you can experiment with precisely focusing your liquidity to earn several times more than on other exchanges. DX25’s concentrated liquidity will make MVX DeFi more efficient and more powerful Currently, you can check out their devnet site to practice swapping and adding liquidity. This is a great chance to get comfortable with the different options such as fine-tuning fee levels and price ranges, so you can operate with maximum precision once the DX25 mainnet launches on MVX. And with $100,000 in $DX25 tokens in rewards for devnet users, there are certainly a lot of reasons to start checking out DX25 now. Hatom: enhancing liquidity for allAre you ready for Hatom?Hatom is an emerging DeFi titan on MultiversX with a focus on secure, scalable tools like Liquid Staking and Lending & Borrowing. While the project’s token launch on xLaunchpad and mainnet release are both coming up right around the corner, you can already test out their flagship features on devnet. Hatom’s Lending module is already available to test on devnet Both of Hatom’s core modules will open up exciting new liquidity flows for MultiversX DeFi. The Lending & Borrowing feature will function like a decentralized bank, where users can choose to take on loans for new investments or supply their assets and earn attractive interest rates. On the other hand, Hatom’s advanced Liquid Staking solution will take a core function of MultiversX to the next level. 65% of all EGLD is currently staked and hard at work securing the network. With Hatom’s liquid staking, this liquidity can be unlocked, with a range of use cases for investors to make their staked EGLD work even harder for them. Instead of having your staked funds just sitting with a validator, Hatom users will be able to tap into their liquidity and use it in other ways. For example, they can join pools on AshSwap or DX25, or buy NFTs on Xoxno. Liquid Staking from Hatom will also be a game-changer with a range of DeFi synergies For example, lenders can earn rewards from supplying liquidity and liquid staking at the same time. Or, stakers can lend part of their liquid EGLD and deposit some of it as collateral to borrow the same asset. This way, the increase of lending income can help offset increases in borrowing costs. Meanwhile, you can put your borrowed assets to work by farming on another protocol. You can continue building your position as long as the ratio between your borrowed and supplied assets, known as your health factor, remains above a certain threshold to avoid liquidation. With the rewards of your additional farming or other strategies, it’s possible to pay back your loan- thus increasing your health factor and decreasing your risk. While the amount of potential integrations is vast, you can already try out a number of them on the MVX devnet. OneDex: powerful community toolsOneDex is another new protocol on MultiversX building a range decentralized tools for Web3 investors.OneDex has already released their permissionless DEX and farms, as well as a launchpad that is open to ecosystem projects. They also made a splash recently by announcing an upcoming bridge to Solana that could bring some new liquidity to MultiversX. But that’s not all! Limit Orders are one of the exciting upcoming features for community project OneDex Limit orders are a powerful financial tool, which are beloved by TradFi traders for their ability to execute orders with a high amount of precision. Using limit orders, investors are able to set up a swap that will only execute when an asset reaches a certain level. OneDex is bringing this feature to MultiversX and have already made it available to try out on their devnet. This could drive additional liquidity and trade volume to the network by allowing users to automate buy orders at the bottom or sell orders at the top of a trading range. Tools like this make OneDex an intriguing project to watch during MultiversX DeFi Summer and beyond. Why a vibrant DeFi ecosystem mattersDeFi is all about improving on traditional finance and centralized Web3 platforms to deliver more transparency and greater yields.However, there is no one-size-fits all strategy for DeFi investors. There are a range of different opportunities to suit different needs, and your approach may vary depending on factors such as your investment timeline and risk appetite. Some users may farm, some may lend, and some may borrow. And this is just the tip of the iceberg! Beyond having just a few popular protocols, it’s valuable to have a range of DeFi tools, opportunities, and analytics to fit different needs and circumstances. In a thriving DeFi ecosystem, users can even be creative and link together different protocols to create the most optimal investments possible based on their own personal criteria. As a growth engine for Web3, Entity encourages further DeFi development to support these kind of innovative strategies and take the ecosystem to new heights. More synergies, more growthThere are still a number of important gaps to fill despite recent progress in the MultiversX DeFi space. These are just a few of the key primitives that empower a vibrant DeFi ecosystem utoscale is bringing yield optimizers, DX25 is bringing derivatives, Hatom and AshSwap are bringing decentralized stablecoins, along with many more powerful tools from these projects and others. In addition to the protocols mentioned above, there are several other innovative DeFi builders in the community such as JEXchange, Proteo, along with many more. And other ecosystem projects such as Combased, Epunks, and Staking Agency have started building useful DeFi products such as lending, borrowing and leveraged yield farming on JewelSwap and liquid staking on SALSA. Build your own DeFi strategyBetween all of these protocols, there will be more and more potential synergies and creative strategies for investors to piece together.NFT collectors will soon be able borrow using their NFTs as collateral on JewelSwap to buy launchpad tickets, secure profits and then close their position after launch. While there will be plenty of opportunities to increase your leverage for more risk and reward, there will also be new strategies for more cautious traders or investors with less time on their hands. For example, investors will be able to put their tokens from other projects into an Autoscale vault to maximize their returns without needing any major time commitment to maintain their position. Or, users will soon be able to act like their own hedge funds by using leveraged positions and opening up shorts on platforms like DX25 to reduce their portfolio risk and help ensure positive outcomes. With some research, imagination, and first-hand practice, the sky is the limit for investors in this increasingly vibrant DeFi universe. MultiversX DeFi: let’s build togetherThroughout each of their Web3 journeys, we look forward to supporting these innovative protocols and helping make MultiversX a top DeFi chain.For more information about these projects, check out the recordings of their Entity Project Dialogues Twitter Spaces: The Entity Builders Forum on June 10 will also feature a deep-dive panel about DeFi, titled ‘DeFi, Payments & Data: Building a Decentralized Future’. Sign up for free now! Get ready for EntityOk, brave pioneers! We are reaching the end of today’s adventure guide, but our MultiversX DeFi journey is only beginning.In the meantime, make sure to follow Entity on Twitter and join our Telegram channel for all the latest news, contests and more! Enhancing the MultiversX Ecosystemhttps://preview.redd.it/bbfv8lh9cr3b1.png?width=720&format=png&auto=webp&s=d8efcdf7af7cbd8e8bd39212ab529da8cf8da1a7 Entity is a Launchpad and suite of cutting-edge tools for Web3 builders and investors. Entity is focused on catalyzing growth in key areas such as DeFi, GameFi, NFTs and real-world blockchain applications. Source: Medium.com/@EntityFinance/entity-defi-multiversx-devnet-adventure-guide |
2023.06.03 09:44 plushiesaremyjam I like Boyfriends
I like the webtoon “Boyfriends” by Refrainbow and I’m tired of pretending it’s bad. I completely understand not liking the creator. Some of the things he did are really shitty. However, on the other hand, completely slandering the webtoon is pandering at best.
People say they are becoming homophobic from the webtoon are close minded as hell. “No polyamorous couple is that cringy” that’s not true and you know that. “They have no personality” that’s not true either, there are plenty of people who act the way they do. “Nerd is a child and he’s weird for acting like one” he’s over the age of 18, and he doesn’t act like a child, little space at best. Which if you don’t know how age regression works, learn about it. It’s a coping mechanism and it’s very obvious that character has childhood trauma which in a later chapter we see that he is the oldest child and was expected of a lot. Let him be a little childish. Half of you all who are slandering the comic are the same people who wear ahaego makeup and watch My Hero Academia, Steven Universe, Owl House, and other “childish shit”. The comic is good, is it silly? Yes. Does it need to make sense all the time? No it’s in a fucking pastel world where shit is different from real life. It’s a slice of life comic. It’s not meant to be deep.
And for everyone saying no polyamorous relationship is like that, not all polycules are the same. They don’t follow a mold. Just let it be silly and stop slandering it just because you have a hard time realizing that the creator of the comic can change as a person from being a literal teenager to an adult. Like…being mad about their online presence and what they said is one thing, being mad that they said a certain word is one thing. Being mad that they made NSFW art of fucking k-pop idols is one thing. But don’t forget that at one point we all made cringe fanfic/art of our favorite characters/actors as underage fans(looking at you Stranger Things fans). You are not better than he is. You are just an asshole who posts how you wanna off certain characters and how they “deserve to have bad things happen to them”
Do better.
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People say they are becoming homophobic from the webtoon are close minded as hell. “No polyamorous couple is that cringy” that’s not true and you know that. “They have no personality” that’s not true either, there are plenty of people who act the way they do. “Nerd is a child and he’s weird for acting like one” he’s over the age of 18, and he doesn’t act like a child, little space at best. Which if you don’t know how age regression works, learn about it. It’s a coping mechanism and it’s very obvious that character has childhood trauma which in a later chapter we see that he is the oldest child and was expected of a lot. Let him be a little childish. Half of you all who are slandering the comic are the same people who wear ahaego makeup and watch My Hero Academia, Steven Universe, Owl House, and other “childish shit”. The comic is good, is it silly? Yes. Does it need to make sense all the time? No it’s in a fucking pastel world where shit is different from real life. It’s a slice of life comic. It’s not meant to be deep.
And for everyone saying no polyamorous relationship is like that, not all polycules are the same. They don’t follow a mold. Just let it be silly and stop slandering it just because you have a hard time realizing that the creator of the comic can change as a person from being a literal teenager to an adult. Like…being mad about their online presence and what they said is one thing, being mad that they said a certain word is one thing. Being mad that they made NSFW art of fucking k-pop idols is one thing. But don’t forget that at one point we all made cringe fanfic/art of our favorite characters/actors as underage fans(looking at you Stranger Things fans). You are not better than he is. You are just an asshole who posts how you wanna off certain characters and how they “deserve to have bad things happen to them”
Do better.
2023.06.03 09:44 Brief-Kaleidoscope78 Poly GF is in a toxic long distance relationship leaving no room for my needs
So for some background, I(28F) started talking to GF(27F) on bumble back in October. We hit it off quick and decided to casually date each other. She's currently married and living with her husband but their relationship is done and irrelevant to the advice I'm trying to get honestly. Their communication was never good and so she's learning what a healthy relationship looks like for her. She expressed that she is Poly and wanted to stay "single" while dating. We agreed that it's something we're both willing to explore, and honestly I thought some time for her to be selfish with her needs would be good for her growth. We quickly grew close and obviously wanted something together but we never discussed it in detail. I carried on thinking she'd dedicate this time to learning more about herself and healing. We agreed that if we were to be active with anyone else we'd have to be open and honest. She specified she'd like to know if I was talking with anyone if the situation ever came about, I said okay.
So that November we go to a festival and meet lots of new friends and we all form a strong bond. One of the guys in the group, Cal(26M), hung out with us all weekend and expressed to GF that he's crushing on her. Nothing really happens immediately but I express that I wouldn't mind it at the time since we're both single still. Fast forward to the beginning of April and she let's me know that they are basically together. I believe she's been casually talking and flirting with him from the beginning, and since this kinda came out of nowhere it really hurt at the time since we had previously discussed being honest with each other. We had set boundaries in the past that I feel like she didn't follow because we hadn't discussed in detail where in our relationship we wanted to go, but honestly even if we were just fwb I think these boundaries were still important but I choose to move forward as long as she stayed open and honest moving forward. We discussed that she wanted serious relationships from both of us and that she'd try her best to treat us equally.
So I wanna clear up that I live about 15 mins from GF and Cal lives about 700 miles away in another state. I spend about every weekend with her and he's come down once to visit and she's gone up once as well.
Since they officially got together I feel like he's been showing an awful lot of signs of insecurity because of the distance and has been very controlling about how she spends her time. They're constantly having hiccups in their relationship and I feel like Cal truly does not want a poly relationship. GF thinks if they just spend more time together it'll work itself out but it's getting to the point where the only time she has to decompress from all her emotions is the time that is supposed to be for us. We do a lot of things together but it feels like there just isn't even time for us to connect with each other at all other than being in each other's presence. When we hang out with friends she goes out of her way to socialize with them and even makes time to FaceTime Cal all while texting him all day but forgets to set some alone time for me and her. At the beginning I felt somewhat insecure about it all but I realized that her relationship with Cal is leaving her drained, manipulated, and left feeling guilty for not being able to meet either of our expectation. I know she's overwhelmed having to juggle work, Cals insecurities and emotions, her family, and me. I dont want to talk to her about my opinion on her relationship with Cal. If she can't see for herself that Cal cannot handle a poly relationship I feel like we're just gonna constantly run into this problem in the future. I feel like this should be something she should learn on her own but it's getting to the point where she's lying to him about what she's doing and he seems to want to make bad decisions out of spite toward her. I dont like feeling like I'm in the back burner having to deal with all this while trying my hardest to support her and I'm afraid Cal will be unfaithful putting my own health at risk too. I myself feel very secure in the relationship despite not getting any intimate time with GF. I know my worth and if she needs to focus on him I can find other ways to occupy my time and we have already discussed all the details together of what that may look like. The only problem is I don't feel safe being sexually active with her while they both disrespect each other's boundaries. But I am her only partner who's close and she's very hypersexual when not dealing with all the stress. I guess what I'm trying to ask is what are some boundaries and ways of discussing these topics I can lay down without seeming controlling? Cal is honestly my friend and I love my GF and accept that she's poly and believe without added outside stress our relationship could thrive in many ways but I feel like she's not healed enough to stand up for her own boundaries and Cal is not secure enough with himself to ease up on the toxicity which in turn affects me in the end and leaves me feeling alone and like I have to constantly be behind her picking up her pieces.
TLDR: Poly GF has toxic long distance BF now who demands her attention and lashes out in spite threatening breakup when not provided, leaving me with no intimate time and a fear of unknown future sexual partners from spiteful BF. How do I tell my poly girlfriend I'm not comfortable being sexually active with her while she's in another seperate yet unstable relationship? Should I tell her my opinion of her relationship? Should I distance myself and let this be a learning experience for her? I wanna support and comfort her but I feel resentful that she just forgets about me.
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So that November we go to a festival and meet lots of new friends and we all form a strong bond. One of the guys in the group, Cal(26M), hung out with us all weekend and expressed to GF that he's crushing on her. Nothing really happens immediately but I express that I wouldn't mind it at the time since we're both single still. Fast forward to the beginning of April and she let's me know that they are basically together. I believe she's been casually talking and flirting with him from the beginning, and since this kinda came out of nowhere it really hurt at the time since we had previously discussed being honest with each other. We had set boundaries in the past that I feel like she didn't follow because we hadn't discussed in detail where in our relationship we wanted to go, but honestly even if we were just fwb I think these boundaries were still important but I choose to move forward as long as she stayed open and honest moving forward. We discussed that she wanted serious relationships from both of us and that she'd try her best to treat us equally.
So I wanna clear up that I live about 15 mins from GF and Cal lives about 700 miles away in another state. I spend about every weekend with her and he's come down once to visit and she's gone up once as well.
Since they officially got together I feel like he's been showing an awful lot of signs of insecurity because of the distance and has been very controlling about how she spends her time. They're constantly having hiccups in their relationship and I feel like Cal truly does not want a poly relationship. GF thinks if they just spend more time together it'll work itself out but it's getting to the point where the only time she has to decompress from all her emotions is the time that is supposed to be for us. We do a lot of things together but it feels like there just isn't even time for us to connect with each other at all other than being in each other's presence. When we hang out with friends she goes out of her way to socialize with them and even makes time to FaceTime Cal all while texting him all day but forgets to set some alone time for me and her. At the beginning I felt somewhat insecure about it all but I realized that her relationship with Cal is leaving her drained, manipulated, and left feeling guilty for not being able to meet either of our expectation. I know she's overwhelmed having to juggle work, Cals insecurities and emotions, her family, and me. I dont want to talk to her about my opinion on her relationship with Cal. If she can't see for herself that Cal cannot handle a poly relationship I feel like we're just gonna constantly run into this problem in the future. I feel like this should be something she should learn on her own but it's getting to the point where she's lying to him about what she's doing and he seems to want to make bad decisions out of spite toward her. I dont like feeling like I'm in the back burner having to deal with all this while trying my hardest to support her and I'm afraid Cal will be unfaithful putting my own health at risk too. I myself feel very secure in the relationship despite not getting any intimate time with GF. I know my worth and if she needs to focus on him I can find other ways to occupy my time and we have already discussed all the details together of what that may look like. The only problem is I don't feel safe being sexually active with her while they both disrespect each other's boundaries. But I am her only partner who's close and she's very hypersexual when not dealing with all the stress. I guess what I'm trying to ask is what are some boundaries and ways of discussing these topics I can lay down without seeming controlling? Cal is honestly my friend and I love my GF and accept that she's poly and believe without added outside stress our relationship could thrive in many ways but I feel like she's not healed enough to stand up for her own boundaries and Cal is not secure enough with himself to ease up on the toxicity which in turn affects me in the end and leaves me feeling alone and like I have to constantly be behind her picking up her pieces.
TLDR: Poly GF has toxic long distance BF now who demands her attention and lashes out in spite threatening breakup when not provided, leaving me with no intimate time and a fear of unknown future sexual partners from spiteful BF. How do I tell my poly girlfriend I'm not comfortable being sexually active with her while she's in another seperate yet unstable relationship? Should I tell her my opinion of her relationship? Should I distance myself and let this be a learning experience for her? I wanna support and comfort her but I feel resentful that she just forgets about me.
2023.06.03 09:44 4irasay Me (22M) and my girlfriend (21F) fight almost every night because I want to sleep. What can I do to prevent her from feeling so emotionally distressed ?
My gf (1 year relationship) moved in my small studio last year, due to the mutual benefits we had from living in the centre of our city. She previously lived with one of her friends in another city and had to do all of the traveling which was super inconvenient. Plus, we would spend much more time together.
Since she did, a subject of fighting I would have never suspected became constant drama. She's a night owl, and I'm a heavy sleepeearly bird, meaning I have to close my eyes for about 7h, and sleep about 6h30, preferably around 1am or so. I have to respond to a strict schedule, because where I live, medical exams are really difficult and learning require a heavy workload. For context, the average student studies around 10 hours per day, every day.
We've had some difficult times finding "us time" in that schedule, and I take the blame for being too anxious about not working and wanting to shorten some "us time" when exams are coming up, and also not having enough "quality time", meaning going out, going to see friends, playing outside... (keep in mind, we are broke students, so going out to eat is not something we can afford on a daily basis). What I did was that I divided work and private life as much as I could, meaning I changed up where I study from my appartement to the library (7:30am - 8:30pm), came home to do my assigned chores (30min or so), and finally spend time together (about 2 to 3 hours). But that tightly made schedule falls appart almost every two days : around 0:30am, I will be really exhausted, my eyes will start to close on they're own, and that's when she'll be asking for more time together, for every reasons she can find.
I started saying yes to bouts of 15 to 20 mins here and there, which led to bouts of 30 to 45 min, and last month, it was about 2 hours. Clearly I have a struggle with boundaries, and she uses various tools to get me to feel anxious about going to sleep : getting upset, arguing, not looking at me, not letting me talk, saying I don't care about her, crying, the silent treatment... so much so that I questioned the necessity of me putting hours so strictly in my schedule to get my things done. I compensated with lack of sleep for work (5hours, which leaves me with sleeping on the job, and not having any energy), or being late. I get up at that time because my mornings are where I work the best, and also now to have a good seat in my library.
About her now. She doesn't have the same curriculum as me, and she has a lighter schedule. She can mostly get up at every hour of the day, but she prefers to go to sleep around 5am to get up at lunch time, except for work days where it's going to be 2am, independently of the hour she needs to get up. She's also, and that plays a part in the sleeping thing I think, really emotionally attached to me, she doesn't see friends a lot, is pretty dependent on me to choose things for her, and is heavy on the fact that she wants us to go to sleep together. She's the most empathetic person I know, she would sacrifice everything she could for others, and we share dreams and values about family, love and relationships.
We have talked about this issue a lot during the past month, and can't find any agreement. She feels like we don't spend enough time together to satisfy her needs for attention, hence why she doesn't respect my hours. She also thinks that 5 hours of sleep won't kill me and my work.
So here's my question : should I accommodate to her and get up later, while sacrificing hours spent studying without her, and having to study at home, creating some friction because she wants to spend time with me when I can't, should I create strict boundaries about going to sleep at 1am, even if she literally will push me to make me talk to her, and throw a tantrum or invoke exceptional reasons (like a really big distress...), or is the problem lying in the fact that 10hours a day of work every day is simply not compatible with a couple's life.
TL;DR : My gf doesn't respect the hours I give her when I want to go to sleep, using every thing she can for me to feel anxious about it. Work-life balance is hard to find, hence why she wants every single minutes she can to talk to me.
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Since she did, a subject of fighting I would have never suspected became constant drama. She's a night owl, and I'm a heavy sleepeearly bird, meaning I have to close my eyes for about 7h, and sleep about 6h30, preferably around 1am or so. I have to respond to a strict schedule, because where I live, medical exams are really difficult and learning require a heavy workload. For context, the average student studies around 10 hours per day, every day.
We've had some difficult times finding "us time" in that schedule, and I take the blame for being too anxious about not working and wanting to shorten some "us time" when exams are coming up, and also not having enough "quality time", meaning going out, going to see friends, playing outside... (keep in mind, we are broke students, so going out to eat is not something we can afford on a daily basis). What I did was that I divided work and private life as much as I could, meaning I changed up where I study from my appartement to the library (7:30am - 8:30pm), came home to do my assigned chores (30min or so), and finally spend time together (about 2 to 3 hours). But that tightly made schedule falls appart almost every two days : around 0:30am, I will be really exhausted, my eyes will start to close on they're own, and that's when she'll be asking for more time together, for every reasons she can find.
I started saying yes to bouts of 15 to 20 mins here and there, which led to bouts of 30 to 45 min, and last month, it was about 2 hours. Clearly I have a struggle with boundaries, and she uses various tools to get me to feel anxious about going to sleep : getting upset, arguing, not looking at me, not letting me talk, saying I don't care about her, crying, the silent treatment... so much so that I questioned the necessity of me putting hours so strictly in my schedule to get my things done. I compensated with lack of sleep for work (5hours, which leaves me with sleeping on the job, and not having any energy), or being late. I get up at that time because my mornings are where I work the best, and also now to have a good seat in my library.
About her now. She doesn't have the same curriculum as me, and she has a lighter schedule. She can mostly get up at every hour of the day, but she prefers to go to sleep around 5am to get up at lunch time, except for work days where it's going to be 2am, independently of the hour she needs to get up. She's also, and that plays a part in the sleeping thing I think, really emotionally attached to me, she doesn't see friends a lot, is pretty dependent on me to choose things for her, and is heavy on the fact that she wants us to go to sleep together. She's the most empathetic person I know, she would sacrifice everything she could for others, and we share dreams and values about family, love and relationships.
We have talked about this issue a lot during the past month, and can't find any agreement. She feels like we don't spend enough time together to satisfy her needs for attention, hence why she doesn't respect my hours. She also thinks that 5 hours of sleep won't kill me and my work.
So here's my question : should I accommodate to her and get up later, while sacrificing hours spent studying without her, and having to study at home, creating some friction because she wants to spend time with me when I can't, should I create strict boundaries about going to sleep at 1am, even if she literally will push me to make me talk to her, and throw a tantrum or invoke exceptional reasons (like a really big distress...), or is the problem lying in the fact that 10hours a day of work every day is simply not compatible with a couple's life.
TL;DR : My gf doesn't respect the hours I give her when I want to go to sleep, using every thing she can for me to feel anxious about it. Work-life balance is hard to find, hence why she wants every single minutes she can to talk to me.